This is a conflicting idea going across social norms dominated by
testosterone driven thoughts. The thought that a man can dress like is
often challenged on the grounds that it makes a person submissive which
is unnatural for a male.
This is primarily how the society evolved in the middle ages and was greatly influenced by the religious motives of conserving male dominance and patriarchy. Even the science of medicine treated it as an unnatural sexual expression to the extent of psychosexual disorder.
It is a blessing for people like us who have long over the years coming from an educated background gone on to establish that it is not a disorder but a desire and an expression, harmless to anyone and useful to the family of the individual if they accept so that the person is able to live it happily. My family does not know. My wife does know but not accept. I feel stifled and deeply desire to dress. This blocks my progress in some way or the other when i am not able to dress as that stress plays on.
Any how times are changing and its sooner realized the better that its just an expression and not a disorder.
This is primarily how the society evolved in the middle ages and was greatly influenced by the religious motives of conserving male dominance and patriarchy. Even the science of medicine treated it as an unnatural sexual expression to the extent of psychosexual disorder.
It is a blessing for people like us who have long over the years coming from an educated background gone on to establish that it is not a disorder but a desire and an expression, harmless to anyone and useful to the family of the individual if they accept so that the person is able to live it happily. My family does not know. My wife does know but not accept. I feel stifled and deeply desire to dress. This blocks my progress in some way or the other when i am not able to dress as that stress plays on.
Any how times are changing and its sooner realized the better that its just an expression and not a disorder.
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